Was scrolling back through some old posts and ran across this one where I was calling hubby my best friend.. That was a just 15 days before his girlfriend let the cat out of the bag about his and her affair. I was so dumbfounded, and humiliated she posted all over facebook the details of their relationship and things he had told her about mine and his relationship. Anyway I cant believe I never saw that train wreck headed my way.. What a fool I was... What a fool I may still be because I stayed with him, and am trying to work it out. We have been through so many different trials, abuse, to cheating, to him traveling for jobs and us never seeing him sometimes for months at a time. This is just another trial I guess. Im chalking it up to a medlife crisis and trying to plow through it. Truth told Im glad he had the affair and didnt chose motorcycles and bungee jumping as his midlife crisis events. It was a hell of alot cheaper and slightly less dangerous..

Would you stay if your spouse cheated?