Some folks couldn't make a good choice if every choice available to them was a good choice. In the case of my eldest offspring, I think she deliberately does these things for attention, and I have decided she will get no more attention from me for said behavior. In fact I am here by resolving myself to doing the exact opposite of what she expects, when she does these idiotic things she does.

You want to spend the night with the boy who cost you 400.00 and your drivers license who never bought anything for his child and wont hold a job?

Well great, I think you should do that. Maybe he has changed, and maybe you can finish changing him into a man. 

What? you want to work in a gas station, and throw away the cosmetology career you went to school, and completed school to get?

Well, I think that is a lovely idea.. You should do that twice.

The harsg reality of it is, that you can't want it for them bad enough to make them do anything. Damned all that free will stuff..God must have been having an off day when he gave them free will. (just kidding God, I know you know what you are doing. However id love it if you would clue me in)

  Don't get me wrong, I love her unconditionally, and will always be here for her, but I cant support her childish antics anymore, and think a dose of tough love is in order here. One can only hope what they are doing is right. Cross your fingers and say a prayer that what Im doing is right when it comes to her.