Someone asked me today what was my type (men wise), and it got me thinking, if I even have a type anymore. The person who asked me that could very easily be my "type", he makes me think, and I like that. He seems genuine and sincere, and I like that. But he is also the neighborhood hunk, and while I'll admit he is nice too look at, I think a man who can have any woman he wants probably has had, any and every woman he wanted. But friendship wise you should know him. He is an awesome guy, and i am very glad to call him my friend.

  Now back to my type. My husband, bless his heart, is not my type. He was 20 years ago, before I knew what a sexual deviant he was, before I know that if I reported the things he's done to me, he'd be on the sex offender list for life. Before all that. He was rough, and rugged, and hard working, and everything i wanted. Now he has left me a broken woman, scared of not just him, but my judgement, and of all men. If he were to die today, Id die a lonely old woman, because I would be terrified to ever put myself in a position to go through the things ive been through again.

  On that note tho. I have an idea, of what id like in a man. Not a one night stand, and not a man obsessed with sex, Id want to meet my soul mate. That one man meant for me, who wouldn't dream of hurting me. Who would be patient and understanding, and wouldnt mind listening to my war stories, because he would want to know me, everything about me, all ive seen, and all ive been through, and he would know those dark things, and he would love me anyway. He wouldn;t just be a lover, but a best friend. We'd share life in, and outside the bedroom.

   Looks really wouldnt matter. Im not as much about that, as about someone who would treat me right for a change. A couple tattoos, and a little scruff in the beard area wouldnt hurt tho.. and so if he really wanted to hear my answer i think this is what id say. But Its a facebook thing, and im sure my answer was supposed to be more along the lines of , Id want a man with a hard dick, and soft kiss or some shit like that.. Come to think of it tho.. add that to my dream guy list too.. it wouldn't be the worst thing ever for him to have... :) peace